I am catching up with posting online my articles.
This is the continuation of the previous article:
WORKING IN THE TEAM - PART 1
WORKING IN THE TEAM - PART 2
WORKING IN THE TEAM - PART 3
WORKING IN THE TEAM - PART 4
Stopping my participation in the ego game is a "good" but the things change when you are directly involved in the game. I have written about it already few time but anyway I will do it again as this is very important.
So... in this situation with my business partners we have 3 people involved. All of them put their part into the creation and thus all of them are the creators of the film in which they are actors at the same time. Now one of them decides to stop his participation in the game. He makes the change within himself and stops giving his energy towards the common creation.
Now... if all the partners decide to do the same then everything is ok. But in the case when they want to continue with their creation and one of them suddenly tells them that he will not do it anymore then we have a conflict and the other person becomes their enemy number one.
And so this is happening right now with my business partners. I am the bad guy and I am their "enemy".
And here comes very, very important question:
How do I know that I am not the bad guy ? What gives me the certainty ?
I say that this question is important for the simple reason that many people start to doubt themselves and they start to fall into the trap of the ego.
So... this is very simple. I know that I have been working with myself and I have made some real changes within myself while I have observed that my partners have not done it. They knew what they should be doing but they did not do it and this leaves us in the situation that I am kind of ahead of them. But this is not just about being ahead or behind. As I said before... this is about the things that I have decided to participate in the game of the ego and so I am the bad guy.
So let's continue... another thing which I have noticed during the conflict is that I am willing to talk and discuss to find the constructive solution while my partners are not as they are angry, emotional and judgmental towards me. And then they do not want to take responsibility for their actions related to the business venture that we have stopped.
To be continued